Wednesday 9 May 2012

Where is The Love?


Perkongsian tweet @faqihaqili ketika program "Insight Southampton: Where is The Love?" Sabtu yang lepas, 5 Mei 2012 oleh Wardina Safiyyah, Sheikh Marwazi dan Myriam Francois. #soton #insightsoton


01. Jalan-jalan #Soton, perkongsian tentang cinta; oleh Wardina dan Sheikh Marwazi (Timbalan Mufti Kedah).
02. Sheikh mulakan perkongsian dengan hadis "an Nikaah sunnati": sebagai asas pembentukan keluarga.
03. Tuntutan nikah bukan bermula apabila akadnya, tetapi sejak awal lagi eg pembinaan akhlak, pemilihan calon. 
04. Nikah bukan sahaja pada penerimaan batang tubuh isteri, tetapi juga tanggungjawab yang akan diserahkan oleh ibu bapa isteri tsebut. 
05. "The best gift from a father for his children is love towards their mother" :) 

06. Kesian kalau anak perempuan tercari-cari cinta daripada lelaki yang bukan mahramnya, apabila gagal mendapatkannya dari bapa sendiri. 
07. Hakikat pembinaan anak / manusia bukan pada luaran zahirnya, tapi pada batinnya ie akal, hati, perasaan dan nafsu. 
08Little Albert Experiment. Menarik! 
09. Sweet kalau anak lelaki "date" dengan emak, anak perempuan "date" dengan ayah. Berdua-duaan. Wah! 
10. Kisah nabi Muhammad saw berlumba lari dengan isteri baginda, Aishah ra. Contoh komunikasi yang terbaik. 

11. Kisah Fatimah ra mengadu kepenatan urusan rumahtangga kepada ayahnya, Muhammad saw; dibalas suruhan agar berzikir. Itulah "relief" yg mujarab. 
12. Kisah Rasulullah menegur isteri baginda Aishah ra yg masak terlebih masin; dengan mengajak makan suap-menyuap. Komunikasi. 
13. Kahwin, tetapi tidak mahu ada anak. Hmmm. @irsyaduddinfaiz , nanti boleh kita sembang-sembang, hehe :) 
14. "Apabila anak tidak mdengar" oleh Dr John Gray. http://flpbd.it/AWUaT
15. "Aku melihat nilai Islam dalam negara bukan Islam" Syeikh Muhd Abduh. Begitu juga pada cara pendidikan anak-anak. 


16. Anak yang dirobotkan dan dipercayakan bahawa mereka "pandai". Bukan mudah untuk mengubah sistem pendidikan. 
17. Antara cadangan bahan bacaan yg baik tntg pdidikan anak. Einstein Never Used Flashcards
18. Television: one way of communication that limits your creativity. Tidak sesuai didedahkan kepada anak seawal dua tahun pertama. 
19. Teringat ayah yang selalu bawakan kami ke kedai buku, belikan kami surat khabar :) 
20. Gabungan usia muda, waktu lapang dan kemewahan. Lalu rosaklah manusia. 

21. Kaitan sosioekonomi dengan komunikasi. 
22. Kaitan cara komunikasi yang berbeza antara golongan profesional, pertengahan dan miskin; disapproval and affirmations. 
23. Hadis agama seseorang itu berkait rapat dengan siapa kawannya. 
24. "Lets go back home and make a muslim family" :) 
25. Love. Sacrifice. Selflessness. 


26. Problem if you just relate love with lust; man with woman. 
27. The source of all love is al Waduud: Allah. Can be seen in surah al Buruuj. And even in bismillah we say ar Rahmaan and ar Rahiim. 
28. Very sad if you can't say "I love you" towards your mother, but can say it to any non mahram women. 
29. "Love starts by loving ourselves first" 
30Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Cool pyramid! 

31. If you've met your truly partner, your next clear goal will be marriage, not vague relationship. 
32. Konflik dengan ibu bapa: mungkin kita belum merasai pengalaman mereka atau mereka yang terlepas pandang idea kita. Selesaikannya sebaik mungkin. 
33. Kisah wanita Yahudi memeluk Islam selepas ketahui orang yang berbuat baik kepadanya merupakan nabi Muhammad yang selalu dicacimaki kerap kali. 
34. The more you give, the happier are you. 
35. Semua masalah, ujian, konflik datangnya daripada hati yang rosak. The golden rule is to purify your heart. Karen Armstrong.


36. Allah will not show mercy to one who doesn't show mercy to others. #hadis
37. Tamatlah Insight #soton hari ini. Terima kasih kepada panelis @WardinaSafiyyah, Sheikh Marwazi, sis Myriam and everyone. Jazakallahu khairan Katsira :)


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